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Post by aruth5000 on May 14, 2007 18:41:59 GMT -5
I know i am not 16 yet ... but i really like this guy ... i dont know if i should go out with him 2 the movies this weekend ... i know my friends and his friends would be there ... but i dont know should i ... my mom says that its up to me ... and i dont want to do the wrong thing
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Post by Mary Lynn on May 15, 2007 13:12:00 GMT -5
hmmm... I don't know what to tell you.... It's kind of a personal decision, I guess. Maybe if you guys just go as friends hangin out, or something. If you are going as an actual DATE date, maybe not so much? 'Cuz it's fine to just hang out with friends- even if they are guys. The only thing is try not to single off- It's a little early for that- I would wait on it But it's totally up to what YOU think.
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Post by aruth5000 on May 15, 2007 17:11:44 GMT -5
well its not really just hanging out cause we would be going out for dinner to .. but i dont know .... cause it would be really awkward ... since i would be the only one that is not 16 yet
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Post by ldsgirl on May 16, 2007 3:27:55 GMT -5
Amber,
I agree with Mary_Lynn's post. The "Strength of Youth" article is a guide by the church leaders to help keep a person safe from making bad decisions under the pressure of starting a relationship at too young of an age. Some people are more mature than others and know how to handle their own emotions and are very careful of the situation that they are in.
I personally plan on waiting until I'm 16 for group dating. That doesn't mean, that I think that, people are bad that start dating sooner.......it is an individual decision that we all must make. Just be careful and remember to never compromise your standards for anyone!
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Post by aruth5000 on May 16, 2007 6:53:14 GMT -5
thanks for your help
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Post by ldsgirl on May 17, 2007 1:45:17 GMT -5
You're very welcome!
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Post by aruth5000 on May 17, 2007 12:38:15 GMT -5
I dont think im going cause i just want to take the risk of us pareing off...
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Post by ldsgirl on May 18, 2007 2:13:00 GMT -5
Group dating is better than single dating, unless you are older.
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Post by Mary Lynn on Jun 5, 2007 2:51:31 GMT -5
That's VERY true. Plus, Group dating is more fun!! It always gets awkward if you are just with one person.. lol
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Post by aruth5000 on Jun 5, 2007 17:01:49 GMT -5
i cant wait till im sixteen... im goign to have so much fun group dating with my friends
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Post by ldsgirl on Jun 6, 2007 14:10:24 GMT -5
Sounds like a good plan to me! Group dates can be awesome!
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Post by Mary Lynn on Jun 6, 2007 14:59:19 GMT -5
for REALZ!
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Post by aruth5000 on Jun 6, 2007 19:02:58 GMT -5
to bad thats not for another year
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Post by ldsgirl on Jun 8, 2007 2:25:23 GMT -5
I went on a double date today to play mini-golf and the to the Sonic later for a cherry limeade, hamburger and fries! It was fun! I have a question though? I play regular golf ....so I have some skill in putting.....well my date was not very good at it and I could tell that it was bothering him when I was winning.....so I started missing so that our scores were closer and he seemed to become happier. Do you think that was wrong of me to do that? Jenni __________
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Post by aruth5000 on Jun 8, 2007 11:38:44 GMT -5
no i dont .... i think all that matters is that you guys had fun!! ... i love mini-golfing even though i suck .. lol ... me and my friends can never go with out loosing at least two balls each .. lol !!! good times
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